The Bodywork Perspective – page 1

What follows is both a description of Bodywork, and a resource regarding the language of the body. 

Read the information I provide to clients
prior to starting Bodywork.

© Wayne C. Allen, 2000

© Wayne C. Allen, 2005

Tilted forward

From the side, this posture looks as if the person is leaning forward. In order to do this, the knees have to be rigid. The weight is borne by the ankle joints, which are tipped forward. Were the person to walk into a wall, they would hit first with their forehead. Try the posture. Stand. Then lean forward from the ankles, keeping the rest of the body fairly rigid. There’s no break at the waist here. Notice the strain on your legs, knees and ankles. And notice how your heels want to leave the ground.

This is an aggressive posture. This person lives life "full speed ahead and damn the torpedoes." They use their heads, a lot. And are used to battering their way, like a ram, through issues in their lives. It’s also a position of caution and vigilance. Typically, forward leaners have been hurt, and aren’t about to let this happen again.

Because of the strain on their lower bodies, they have little sense of groundedness or connectedness to ground, to feeling, to deep strength. Their strength is in their heads. Thus, if attacked from behind, they are candidates for falling flat on their faces, which they fear. Thus the guarded look.

Leaning Back

 
© R. Crumb


© Wayne C. Allen, 2001

This posture looks "laid back." I often think of this posture in terms of the cartoon "Keep on Truckin’," (by R. Crumb) and the leaning back, again, is whole body leaning. It’s often most apparent when the person is walking.

Again, locked knees and pelvis are required for balance, such as it is. While "laid back" describes the posture, the implication here is, "all’s right with the world."

In truth, most laid back people, when the expression was created, were laid back by drugs. And they were laid back as an escape from the reality of the world.
Leaning back is a way to escape from the world. The funny part is, though, if you walk into a wall, you’ll hit your legs, then your crotch. No coincidence that many laid back folk think with their genitals.

It’s almost as if this crotch / leg contact with the world keeps the heart reserved, pulled back, safe. The chest and the head are a couple of minutes behind, and like it that way. To hug such a person is, again, to come in contact with their pelvis first and then to lean into them to reach the heart. Which forces the hugger to also be the aggressor. This, then, is a passive / aggressive stance.

Struck from the front, the person is a pushover. And again, because of the muscle tension necessary to maintain the position, the person lacks grounding and true feeling of their feelings. Their look is "blissed out" or tuned out.

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