A Note From Wayne
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The key to love is respect and patience
Romantic love is impossible to maintain over time.
The romantic side of the equation depends almost completely on the emotions. Romance is typically huge - the ups and downs are dramatic, and exhausting.
Long term relationships, on the other hand, depend on the [...]
Love: doing all in your power to encourage another to accept their wholeness.
Love: doing all in your power to encourage another to accept their wholeness.
Love is actually an action word—one acts lovingly. I cannot ‘think’ love, I can only be loving. Now, as we noted two sections ago, love is not a manipulative tool—”if you love me you’ll obey me.” Nor is it a bargaining [...]
In the Moment
If you’re following
along with my “stuff,”
you’ll know I have
several books on the go,
each vying for the
‘supremacy’ of
which will get done, and
therefore published, next.
I’ve gotten to the
point of a fairly regular
writing schedule, and this
story popped out today,
(it’s included in my
Zen stories book,
tentatively titled, “half
Asleep in the Buddha
Hall”.) Into the Centre will
be going out likely Friday,
as Darbella and I are going
to be away this weekend,
celebrating (a week late)
our 21st anniversary. Keep
your eyes peeled! In the
Moment A Zen monk,
walking along
The Scale of the Universe
I just spent a few minutes looking at a new project from Nikon. It’s a thing called Universcale - it provides an overview of the Universe from the macro to the micro, and puts into perspective how little we are able to perceive. You could easily get lost in the presentation, which is the sign [...]
A Question of Experience
Yesterday’s article has generated a couple of questions that I really like, and to which I responded. Now I want to get people to ask questions here on the Blog!
Anyway here’s the two questions, and my response.
1) Hi Wayne, You wrote:
Clients come to learn communication. They learn how, and refuse to actually do it with [...]
Zen Based, Present Living


