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A Word from Wayne
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“Why not try some­thing that works?”

The Web page is up for our new DVD and book set on Med­i­ta­tion and pain relief. We decided to pro­vide this to injured work­ers at our work­shop last week­end, and think you’ll like it, too.

Please, take the time to go have a look. I’ve put a small video on the page, which con­tains a short overview of the con­tents. I’ll likely send out a sep­a­rate mail­ing soon, describ­ing the set in more detail.

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A New Series—The Body Speaks
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(In the first in this series of arti­cles, I pro­vided you with a handy lit­tle chart that pro­vides the loca­tion, descrip­tion, and char­ac­ter­is­tics of the Chakras. Use the link if you want to refer to it.)


Today, we turn to the Brow (6th) Chakra zone

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The Sixth Chakra has sev­eral names—the Third Eye, the Insight Chakra.

To begin, notice that word — in–sight.

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There is a ton of con­fu­sion about this—
about how we see what we see,
and what “what we see” means.

I don’t think I’d be exag­ger­at­ing say­ing that 100% or the issues in the world, and in us, come from miss­ing the fol­low­ing point:

Your rules, the ways in which you struc­ture your real­ity, are implanted by your cul­ture, and what’s ham­mered into you head is that these rules are right.
Even if you stomp your lit­tle feet and do things another way, as soon as you think your other way is “right,” you’re back in the soci­etal game of, “My view is right, yours is wrong, and I’m going to change you.”

The alter­na­tive, the actual alter­na­tive, is right in front of your eyes, if you would choose to see. Here are two hints about it.

  1. The Uni­verse, and you, are the same. Every­thing is One thing. I don’t really care if you accept the big bang the­ory or not. (On the other hand, if you think Yah­weh invented the world 6,000 years ago, why are you read­ing this???)
    In the Tao, form arose from form­less­ness, and this fits the Big Bang The­ory. The uni­verse was empty, and sud­denly, it was every­thing.

    Now, the thing I like about this is that every­thing that is, from stars and plan­ets to microbes and you, are all made of the same stuff. Our atoms are the same as the atoms of, say, that moun­tain over there.
  2. The Uni­verse does not care about you. The uni­verse has “Kept on Truckin’ ” for bil­lions of years, and will, likely, for bil­lions more, and you are, both in time and in size, a micron of a micron in all of this.

Sounds grim, right? Well, I think it’s actu­ally liberating.

Our cul­ture tells us we “should” strive to make a dif­fer­ence, be unique, and change the world. Now, on the sur­face, this sounds all noble and poetic.

The prob­lem, how­ever, is that such an approach often leads to “think­ing you are entitled.”

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Spe­cial? Of course we’re special!

And yes, going out and actu­ally doing some­thing is very Zen.

The prob­lem with “fix the world,” how­ever, is this. It rein­forces our erro­neous belief that our prob­lems, the solu­tion, our sal­va­tion, etc. is “out there, some­where.” We waste our lives on “out-sight,” frus­trat­ing our­selves when the “outer” refuses to yield to our specialness.

This approach misses the point. Out there is and always will be, out there.

Noth­ing out there needs us the way we want to be needed. Indeed, out there exists with­out us. It just is.

Sec­ondly, what is is not “real” until we appre­hend it and label it.

In other words, noth­ing exists until it pen­e­trates us, and we label it.

For exam­ple, bring your atten­tion to the sounds around you. Did they exist before you heard them? Can you prove it? Of course you can’t, and this can be very, very scary. We think, “I just heard that fan motor, and it obvi­ously was “there” before I heard it.” But, you see, there is no “there before you heard it” that you can prove existed, because it’s already in the past, which does not exist, and can­not be proven.

We take it for granted that there is a past, but it’s just a social con­ve­nience. We tell sto­ries of the past, and we all wink and pre­tend that they are true.

Here’s a hint: they’re not. They are made up, and so are you.

Now, most peo­ple, read­ing this, want to fairly fly up into their heads, cre­ate a stun­ning argu­ment for why Wayne is off his rocker, and maybe even stop read­ing fur­ther. But again, that would be you, up in your head, hav­ing an imag­i­nary con­ver­sa­tion with me, who has never even once vis­ited your head.

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Every­thing you think I’m say­ing up there is you, in drag, play­ing me.
Or play­ing with me, if you pre­fer. Please, have fun!

Zen insight is see­ing that our minds are pre-programmed to invent the past and future, to label, judge, blame, and to cre­ate divisions.

The Tao tells us that from the “One” of exis­tence comes the “Two” of dual­ity (right/wrong, good/bad, desire/repulsion, me/others,) and the “Three” of the rela­tional “inter­ac­tion” that exists between the sep­a­rate things.

It appears that there is me, you, and our interaction.

Seems to be so, doesn’t it? Yet, if you can pull back a bit, insight will show you that there is noth­ing more than your judge­ments and division-making—your “role and rule making.”

In Zen, this under­stand­ing of Real­ity (cap­i­tal R) is para­mount for achiev­ing Free­dom (cap­i­tal F). Free­dom is free­dom from our own men­tal processes.

Med­i­ta­tion serves the pur­pose of let­ting us see how per­va­sive our labelling and think­ing is.

We sit, and observe, and sud­denly the back­ground men­tal chat­ter is right there, as plain and obvi­ous as can be. It’s largely crap, and con­sists of half-formed sto­ries that serve like the lit­tle images in a DVD index. We see the lit­tle image, get all intrigued, and push “PLAY.”

Except that we are the direc­tor, writer, and cin­e­matog­ra­pher, and all the work hap­pens as we push the PLAY button.

None of it exists until we make it up.

Then, it still isn’t real, as in True (cap­i­tal T), but it’s ours, and we’ll defend this men­tal cre­ation to our detri­ment, right up until we curl up our toes.

So, what’s the alter­na­tive, you ask?

See­ing that what we see is all there is. Life con­tin­u­ally pro­vides raw data, and all of it is colour­ful and mean­ing­less. If we can stop our­selves from mak­ing the leap into our heads, to cat­e­go­rize, label, and judge, we have the oppor­tu­nity to just Be (cap­i­tal B) with what is.

This changes every­thing. Awake means liv­ing the present expe­ri­ence, savour­ing the present moment, doing what is required in the present moment.

Here are some ways:

Meditate

Yup. Again. Sit down, stop whin­ing, and observe the games your mind plays. It’s not called Mon­key Mind for nothing.

Notice the men­tal gym­nas­tics, the effort you put in to dis­tract­ing your­self from just sit­ting. Notice how badly you want to accom­plish some­thing — get enlight­ened, have peace, be different.


Notice how that is not work­ing out.


Med­i­ta­tion brings us into the moment, and gives us the chance to sim­ply Be. No goals, no things to accom­plish. Just Sit­ting, Being, Breath­ing.
Open Your Eyes
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See with your “artist eyes.” We all have them. It’s about open­ing your senses to input, and hold­ing your rush to inter­pret at bay. You do this by con­tin­u­ally com­ing back to the object (sight, sound, feel­ing, etc.) at hand. Or eye. Or ear. Be present with the feeling.

In Body­work, “stuff” is com­ing up all the time. Some is judged painful, other stuff chargy, erotic, juicy. The feel­ing the comes from a bit of pres­sure on the body is quite huge, and “fun” to experience.

Yes­ter­day, at a Med­i­ta­tion Work­shop, I briefly did some Breath­work teach­ing, and one woman was grit­ting her teeth, hold­ing in a pile of emo­tion that was right on the sur­face. Later, I offered her some Body­work, and she said, “I’m not ready to let go of that stuff. It was gen­er­a­tions in the making!“

Well, no. She made it. Her par­ents, etc. taught her how, but she’s mak­ing it now, and hold­ing on to it because she fears let­ting go. Who will I be if I am not a mar­tyr for my imag­ined stories?


Open your eyes and be present for your life, and your expe­ri­ences.
Get the Joke

This fol­lows the last one, in ways other than the sequence. The joke is, you’ve been so busy liv­ing in your head, (and by def­i­n­i­tion, “in your head” is either past or future) that you’ve missed your life!

You’ve been so busy with “the sto­ries,” you’ve missed the Real­ity.

And then there’s the joke about your sto­ries! They’re crap! Not True! Fig­ments of your imag­i­na­tion! Moronic! Fool­ish! And, boy, do you love your stories!

In fact, you bend Real­ity, oth­ers, events, and his­tory to fit your pre­con­ceived notions of who they are, how they are, and what they mean! And you’ve missed Real­ity. But boy, have those sto­ries in your head been fun! Chargy! Dra­matic. And boy, are you ever impor­tant, up there in your head.

And you can’t for the Life of you, fig­ure out why every­one else doesn’t think you’re as mag­nif­i­cent as you think you are.
(Mag­nif­i­cent in either the “great” direc­tion, or the “poor me, I’m such a vic­tim” direc­tion, as those are the movies that sell — both in the “real world,” and in your head.)


Get the joke, get over your­self, have a breath, and go back to step 2.
Refuse to Argue

Many peo­ple try to per­suade me that I don’t know what I’m talk­ing or writ­ing about. I don’t care. This is not, for me, a debate.

Yes­ter­day, at the work­shop, peo­ple were enthused with their new med­i­ta­tion expe­ri­ence. I encour­aged them to carry on, and to sit. I’d talked a bit about this stuff, and then said, “This is not my belief. This is how I live my Life.”

Thus, I do not care if you approve, get it, or what­ever. My choice is to write about this stuff, hope­fully to twig your imag­i­na­tion, and to get you to look (see step 2) at what you are doing. I do not think I am right, and there­fore that you “should” do as I do. I want you to do what you do, and to be clear that you are choos­ing. Not forced to. Not genet­i­cally pre­dis­po­si­tioned. Not the poor help­less vic­tim bilge again. Choosing.

Stop argu­ing, with any­one. What are you try­ing to prove? That you are right, of course. You have it all fig­ured out.

Here’s a hint. If you had it all fig­ured out, you wouldn’t need to argue, to con­vince oth­ers of your bril­liance.
You’d just be present in your life, hav­ing your expe­ri­ences, and you would know Real­ity and your place in it. You’d have noth­ing invested in oth­ers agree­ing with you or chang­ing for you.

And if per­chance how you were liv­ing your life seemed, to oth­ers, to be worth emu­lat­ing, you’d just smile and say, “Have fun!”


I do have a belief. If your life is work­ing for you, it shows. You are con­tent, and you do not com­plain nor judge. You just Live Life. If you think you know, and your life is a mis­ery, hmm.
Have fun!

Be with oth­ers, as they are.

This fol­lows. Other is any­thing other than you. And you don’t really exist either, so other is also you.

Nope, not crazy. Let’s “do you” first. Sounds like fun, eh?

The only you, as I said last arti­cle and else­where, is the one who just read these words. And these words. When you pre­tend you are the per­son who existed in the past and is exist­ing into the future, you are caught in the big lie. When you go into your head and invent your­self, ever again, you are pick­ing and choos­ing a story out of your mem­o­ries (which are noto­ri­ously faulty…) and likely mak­ing stuff up. And then, you want oth­ers to agree with your made-up story.

Or, let’s say you were vic­tim­ized when young. Does that deter­mine how you are right now? Of course not, unless you choose to view your life through that filter.

Same with oth­ers. You have an opin­ion about every­one, and they’re just sto­ries. How they are right now, is how they are right now. Doesn’t mean any­thing, or bet­ter, they are only as you see them. If you want to demo­nize them, feel free. That’s just you, play­ing games again.


You could also be with the per­son as they are. If you are attracted, move close. If repelled, move away. If neu­tral, hang around and see what hap­pens. Simple.

Next week, the last in our Chakra series!

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