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	<title>Comments on: The Dance of Relationships</title>
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	<description>Wayne C. Allen - a simple Zen guy - writes about living and relating elegantly</description>
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		<title>By: [BLOCKED BY STBV] relationships</title>
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		<dc:creator>[BLOCKED BY STBV] relationships</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 12:11:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;relationships...&lt;/strong&gt;

Thank you for your help!...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>relationships…</strong></p>
<p>Thank you for your help!…</p>
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		<title>By: wayne</title>
		<link>http://www.phoenixcentre.com/blog/2009/12/07/dance-relationships/#comment-517</link>
		<dc:creator>wayne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 18:19:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, odd, eh? 
I suspect people think things are a &quot;failure&quot; when they don&#039;t get what they want. Most relationships lack fluidity of intent and movement, and therefore there&#039;s a lot of politics happening.  
Once you get that the way things are, are the way you judge them to be, you can choose to let go of the judgement and simply have the experience. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, odd, eh?<br />
I suspect people think things are a “failure” when they don’t get what they want. Most relationships lack fluidity of intent and movement, and therefore there’s a lot of politics happening.<br />
Once you get that the way things are, are the way you judge them to be, you can choose to let go of the judgement and simply have the experience.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan</title>
		<link>http://www.phoenixcentre.com/blog/2009/12/07/dance-relationships/#comment-516</link>
		<dc:creator>Susan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 16:02:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why do people equate leaving a relationship as a &quot;failure&quot; ... and ... they are only lousy results if you are judging them to be.  :) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why do people equate leaving a relationship as a “failure” … and … they are only lousy results if you are judging them to be.  <img src='http://www.phoenixcentre.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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