Contents
DedicationContents
Introduction
Chapter One - Finding Ourselves First
The Myth of One Reality
The Myth of Comfort
Happy versus Right
Manipulating others into changing
"I'm no good"
The Myth of Dreamland - Past and Future
The Myth of Limitations
Strange Behaviours to Notice
Blaming
Inertia
Boredom
Giving Up
Chapter Two - Lives on the Edge
Creativity
Filters
Tension
Focus
Commitment
Choosing the Growing Edge
Chapter Three - The Basis of Relationships
Sex, Hormones and Horniness
After the Novelty Wears Off
A Note of Explanation
Chapter Four - A Little Theory That Grew
Chapter Five - Who've You Had in the Past?
An Excursus on Vocation
Chapter Six - First Things First
The Contents of a List of 50
An excursus on "Right, Wrong, Opinions and Facts"
Crucial Themes
Vocation:
Focus:
Spirituality:
Politics:
Communication style:
Sexual preferences:
Sexual "Fidelity":
Physical appearance:
Spare time focus, activities:
Intellect:
Emotional Intelligence:
Place on the Introversion / Extroversion scale:
Why Self Knowledge is so Important
You are not seeking a Clone
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Chapter Seven - Down to the Basics
An Excursus on Non-Attachment
Chapter Eight - The Language Police
Negatives
Ambiguity
Finding the Words
Chapter Nine - Ordering the Cosmos
Chapter Ten - Be a Poster Poster
Chapter Eleven - The Big Question
Chapter Twelve - The Friend Factor
A Spiritual Approach to Manifestation
A Scientific Approach to Filtering
Chapter Fourteen - Some Closing Thoughts
The Forms
Form #1, page 1 - Who've You Done?
Form # 2, Scratch Pad for The List of 50
Form # 3, The List of 50
Comments about The List of 50
Other People's Lists
References
