Wayne C. Allen - a simple Zen guy - writes about living and relating elegantly
Blame and the Guilt Button — people use blaming as a weapon — using guilt as a way to manipulate others into doing their bidding. The cure? Self-responsibility. Psst! Hey! ** Want more great writing designed to help YOU to shift your behaviour? ** Want to learn how to find, build or deepen your principal … Read more
Seek solutions, without placing blame — amazing how much time is wasted not dealing with issues. Rather than freeze up with blaming, do something!
Always Tell the Truth, as You Know It – Honesty really is the best policy — learn why honesty is best
The Most Important Step — learning to be self-responsible is the only way to go!
Curiosity, Interest and Acceptance — the three things that keep a relationship fro going off the rails. And notice: no mention of controlling the other person!
