It’s All / It’s Not About You

Many are the people who think that the world isn’t treating them right. I hear this one especially as I counsel couples. There they sit, balefully glaring at each other, vainly hoping I’ll declare a winner. Each rattles off a litany of what the other is doing wrong. Sometimes, one or the other will tell me, with great righteousness, “Everyone knows that relationships should be easy. When you find the right person, (s)he will meet all your needs, without asking, and everything will be perfect.”

This is egotism.

Clearing the Gunk Out of Your Head

Most people sense a lack in their lives — as if something important is missing. Mostly, it seems to be about power and anger and force and it seems a bit (or a lot) black. It seems that way because, since you were a kid, people have been stuffing you with fears, prejudices, and airy-fairy ideas that being a good little boy or girl is the only acceptable state.

The Bliss of an Empty Mind

This is post 3 of 10 in the series “Emptying Body Mind Spirit” Body Cleanse The Mind’s Cobwebs The Bliss of an Empty Mind Clearing the Gunk Out of Your Head Exercises in Mind Emptying Clearing Relationship Gunk Putting Your Soul into your Being Dropping the Excuses Seeing the Light You Can’t Win How to … Read more