Wayne C. Allen - a simple Zen guy - writes about living and relating elegantly
Life is Simply Not That Simple — it seems as if, with practice, or time, life would get simpler. Not. it seems as if, with practice, or time, life would get simpler. Not. There are layers and layers of complexity.
The Most Important Rule — there are no rules. When it comes to choice about what to do with your life, there are no “universals.” There’s just what works, and what doesn’t.
Seek solutions, without placing blame — amazing how much time is wasted not dealing with issues. Rather than freeze up with blaming, do something!
Honesty in Communication — this is definitely a self-help project, as all you can do, even in relationship, is work on yourself.
Creating and Maintaining Relationships that Work — relationships that work don’t just happen. You have to commit to making them work/
The Myth of Sex Equalling Intimacy–Intimacy is an act of continual stripping away — of revealing who we are, with total honesty.