It’s not the destination–it’s the path”–pathways The point of the exercise So, here we are at the end of this mini series, and I want to give you some guidelines. As I’ve written, this exercise was designed to help you see an overall direction for your life. Most of us quite clearly know what we … Read more

Seeing the Light

It takes both courage and persistence to change what does not and has never worked into something that does work. This is radically different from what I see a lot of. People expecting others to change so they can be happy, for example. Then they learn a few skills and find better ways to talk, but the message is the same: “I expect you to change, or the world to change. I have all my beliefs and affirmations in place, and here I sit, waiting.”