Wayne C. Allen - a simple Zen guy - writes about living and relating elegantly
Blame and the Guilt Button — people use blaming as a weapon — using guilt as a way to manipulate others into doing their bidding. The cure? Self-responsibility. Psst! Hey! ** Want more great writing designed to help YOU to shift your behaviour? ** Want to learn how to find, build or deepen your principal … Read more
On Real Relating — Discover Yourself — relating is a forum where we get to experiment with what we are learning about ourselves
Disconnecting the Guilt Button — rather than expecting others to not use guilt to manipulate you, you can choose to stop biting. Of Wayne’s many
On Being Yourself–you are exactly and only who you are–including what you discover about yourself–the parts tucked away
self responsibility is all about bringing yourself under your own control, and accepting that you are in charge of you.
Self-Responsible Relating — Your job, even in relationship, is to figure yourself out — not fix your partner. Besides, why are you with someone who is broken?